I woke up this morning to get my kids ready for school and decided that I had a few extra minutes to check my Facebook, as I do so often throughout the day, and I was alarmed to see that one of my good guy friends soon to be EX Wife had gotten on to his Facebook and just blabbed to everyone about their personal life and really let him have it. I was shocked, appalled, irritated and just down right pissed off. Even though they will remain nameless, this girl always bashes her husband on Facebook as soon as he does something. No matter what he says, she trashes him. He has done nothing but be nice and try to fix things and every time he says he loves and misses the old times, she blabs on her Facebook what a liar he is and that she is moving on... then shortly after that they make up and she tells him that she doesn't wanna be without him. (really it goes much further than Facebook) Now, I realize that it may look like I am being biased cause he is my friend, but I befriended her at one time to. I also know that I am not 100% innocent in the Facebook trashing game, but I will NEVER trash anyone that I love or care about. EVER! I may complain about my ex, but I never drag our trash out for everyone to see. If you are going to trash someone do it on your OWN profile. There is no need to sign into someones account and let their personal business become everyone's business. No matter how much she nag's, trashes, and hammers him it won't make me think ill of him and I commented (yes, I know I shouldn't have) that I thought it was childish to spill his beans all over the net. Especially since he has no way of knowing or has the resources to check in and see what went down.
Maybe I am being dumb, but seriously, this made me mad. Why do people think that its okay to blast people like she did?! If you want to release your frustrations, DO IT ON YOUR OWN STATUS, don't log into someone's account and post it everywhere! Good hell, have respect! I don't care if you hate the person... CONTROL yourself before you do something that you know that you will regret! This isn't just about my friend, this goes for ALL of my friends that have had it happen to them OR have done it to others! One day you will learn, and when that day comes, it will be too late.... everyone will have their own opinions about you and your actions!
Anyways, that is what I think of it. I know that my thoughts or opinions don't even matter, but at this boiling point, I just don't care. :)
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